Nothing feels more wonderful than having a full body orgasm. Most women cum more when they are home alone than with their partners…. why is that? I’m going to be brutally honest here folks, I climax every time I have sex with my man. I am THAT woman. It’s true, and I’m not at all sorry about it. However, what I can do is share a little insight into what’s going on in my lustful brain and throbbing loins when I’m being fucked every which way.
There is no formula for a female orgasm, it’s really a mental thing. And should you ever get that rare magical moment when your brain and your vag comes together to shakes hands… hallelujah!!
Remember, a lot of what happens down there, starts in your mind. Kinky talk, gestures, rough play, roll play, or anything that turns on your brain, will get those juices flowing! If you haven’t already done this test with your partner, we highly suggest it!
WHEN I’M ON TOP
Take control, don’t be shy! Straddle your man and show him how you like it; deep, slow or fast thrust’s, he won’t mind – I promise. But don’t go all Jack-in-the-box on him by bouncing up and down, you’ll get a much more incredible sensation when you slowly rock and grind against your partner. The face to face eye contact, the kissing, the teasing, the foreplay is endless. I especially enjoy whispering something dirty just as we are ready to explode – OMG just hearing yourselves moan and pant can make you cum, cum hard. Put on your favourite piece of lingerie on, because this is the ultimate point of view. I particularly love my lace cup-less remote vibrating teddy! The vibrator is a nice touch but you do not always need it. And most important when you are on top… be adventurous… reverse cowboy can be awkward but will definitely awaken your G-Spot!
WHEN I’M ON THE BOTTOM
There are too many condescending reports when it comes to girl on bottom sex and the lack of climaxing abilities. But let me share something phenomenal, you can totally cum in this position and heres how! Once he is inside you… close your legs and I mean squeeze your legs tight (he will slip in and out, but trust me it adds to the fun!!) Now make sure that while he is thrusting, that he is laying right on top of you, I mean let him put as much as his lower body weight against you as possible… the general motion of the thrust’s and the weight of his pelvis will rub up against your clit. You haven’t experience ultimate orgasm until you’ll cum’d with your man on top of you. And if you time it properly you can even hit climax at the same time! It’s AMAZING!!!
FROM ORAL SEX
Honestly ladies, when you’re receiving oral sex its not the time to be coy – it’s time to lead, guide and be forceful. Literally. When I say forceful I mean, apply pressure by laying your hand on the back of his head and pull him in, exactly the way you want it. Now make sure you are vocal because all men need direction – and they love it. So tell him… don’t stop, right there, slow down, faster baby, yessssss!! My ultimate fave tongue action in order to cum is when my babes begins my gently licking around my clit, depending on my mood I like feeling him tasting every bit of me. As I’m tingling all over, he slowly licks his way down from my clit into me – here he can stick his entire tongue inside me, in and out… out and in. And honestly ladies, if your man dares…. let him lick your ass. Im not fucking with you. You will instantly cum once he begins licking your asshole. At the end of the day, when it comes to oral sex… he really cannot go wrong with a little guidance from the recipient 🙂
First and foremost, ensure his nails are trimmed and neat, this is integral before the finger foreplay begins. To achieve orgasm, my man does this crop circle motion with his fingers inside me usually starting off slow but really there is no rhyme or reason – it just feels GOOD! And the best part is while he is in there he uses his middle finger to penetrate me… and depending on my mood I will usually guide his hand to go in deeper, faster or slower like I would his cock. Then at the right moment he will turn over his hand, palm up and using his index finger and middle finger he will locate my G-Spot. Once he has found it, just lay back and enjoy the ride. Maybe if you’re feeling a little kinky add his other hand and have both go at it!! Sooo HOT!
Now this position is my absolute fave because YOU have complete control over your orgasm. To start I love bending over a table or sofa arm, because being on al fours is sexy, but can do a number on your knees and back. Next try and forget the strip, leave a little bit on and every time you wear that outfit again you will have very fond memories. Once you’re in a comfortable bent over position, give yourself a hand by using your fingers or a vibrator to stimulate your clit as your partner thrusts for a climax twice as powerful. Make sure you experiment in this position too, grab some lube and switch up from vaginal to backdoor play -this is one of the easiest ways to bring in some fabulous Anal Play (we don’t suggest going back and forth though)!
Now at the end of the day, in order for any man to be able to please you to pleasure, you need to be able to make yourself cum, be it vaginal orgasm, clitoral or finding your G-Spot – if you haven’t been successful, how dare you expect him to be. So before I go, I’m going to give you a few tips on masturbating, now again, I am no expert and all, what I am sharing are some of my personal experiences that have brought me to sexual bliss.
Here we go… clear your mind and focus on your clit, I find having a clitoral orgasm is far easier than a vaginal orgasm when masturbating. Gently rubbing it with your fingers, massaging it slowly and gradually build up how intensely you touch it as you reach climax, then as you climax, ease right off as it will be incredibly sensitive to touch. A great tool for this are the wands!
Now try to find your G-Spot, unlike your clit, the G-spot is located inside your vagina on the front wall. You can make a “come here” motion with your fingers to massage it or you can press your fingers against it and move your arm around to stimulate it. It’s really up to you to find what your enjoy the most. We have found that one of the best G-Spot Stimulators comes from NJOY!
Tell us below if you have any other suggestions to reach that wonderful screaming O!