How To Reach That Screaming Orgasm EveryTime!

Nothing feels more wonderful than having a full body orgasm. Most women cum more when they are home alone than with their partners…. why is that? I’m going to be brutally honest here folks, I climax every time I have sex with my man. I am THAT woman. It’s true, and I’m not at all sorry about it. However, what I can do is share a little insight into what’s going on in my lustful brain and throbbing loins when I’m being fucked every which way.

There is no formula for a female orgasm, it’s really a mental thing. And should you ever get that rare magical moment when your brain and your vag comes together to shakes hands… hallelujah!!

Remember, a lot of what happens down there, starts in your mind. Kinky talk, gestures, rough play, roll play, or anything that turns on your brain, will get those juices flowing! If you haven’t already done this test with your partner, we highly suggest it!

WHEN I’M ON TOP

Take control, don’t be shy! Straddle your man and show him how you like it; deep, slow or fast thrust’s, he won’t mind – I promise. But don’t go all Jack-in-the-box on him by bouncing up and down, you’ll get a much more incredible sensation when you slowly rock and grind against your partner. The face to face eye contact, the kissing, the teasing, the foreplay is endless. I especially enjoy whispering something dirty just as we are ready to explode – OMG just hearing yourselves moan and pant can make you cum, cum hard. Put on your favourite piece of lingerie on, because this is the ultimate point of view. I particularly love my lace cup-less remote vibrating teddy! The vibrator is a nice touch but you do not always need it. And most important when you are on top… be adventurous… reverse cowboy can be awkward but will definitely awaken your G-Spot!

WHEN I’M ON THE BOTTOM

There are too many condescending reports when it comes to girl on bottom sex and the lack of climaxing abilities. But let me share something phenomenal, you can totally cum in this position and heres how! Once he is inside you… close your legs and I mean squeeze your legs tight (he will slip in and out, but trust me it adds to the fun!!) Now make sure that while he is thrusting, that he is laying right on top of you, I mean let him put as much as his lower body weight against you as possible… the general motion of the thrust’s and the weight of his pelvis will rub up against your clit. You haven’t experience ultimate orgasm until you’ll cum’d with your man on top of you. And if you time it properly you can even hit climax at the same time! It’s AMAZING!!!

FROM ORAL SEX

Honestly ladies, when you’re receiving oral sex its not the time to be coy – it’s time to lead, guide and be forceful. Literally. When I say forceful I mean, apply pressure by laying your hand on the back of his head and pull him in, exactly the way you want it. Now make sure you are vocal because all men need direction – and they love it. So tell him… don’t stop, right there, slow down, faster baby, yessssss!! My ultimate fave tongue action in order to cum is when my babes begins my gently licking around my clit, depending on my mood I like feeling him tasting every bit of me. As I’m tingling all over, he slowly licks his way down from my clit into me – here he can stick his entire tongue inside me, in and out… out and in. And honestly ladies, if your man dares…. let him lick your ass. Im not fucking with you. You will instantly cum once he begins licking your asshole. At the end of the day, when it comes to oral sex… he really cannot go wrong with a little guidance from the recipient 🙂

GETTING FINGERED

First and foremost, ensure his nails are trimmed and neat, this is integral before the finger foreplay begins. To achieve orgasm, my man does this crop circle motion with his fingers inside me usually starting off slow but really there is no rhyme or reason – it just feels GOOD! And the best part is while he is in there he uses his middle finger to penetrate me… and depending on my mood I will usually guide his hand to go in deeper, faster or slower like I would his cock. Then at the right moment he will turn over his hand, palm up and using his index finger and middle finger he will locate my G-Spot. Once he has found it, just lay back and enjoy the ride. Maybe if you’re feeling a little kinky add his other hand and have both go at it!! Sooo HOT!

DOGGY STLE

Now this position is my absolute fave because YOU have complete control over your orgasm. To start I love bending over a table or sofa arm, because being on al fours is sexy, but can do a number on your knees and back. Next try and forget the strip, leave a little bit on and every time you wear that outfit again you will have very fond memories. Once you’re in a comfortable bent over position, give yourself a hand by using your fingers or a vibrator to stimulate your clit as your partner thrusts for a climax twice as powerful. Make sure you experiment in this position too, grab some lube and switch up from vaginal to backdoor play -this is one of the easiest ways to bring in some fabulous Anal Play (we don’t suggest going back and forth though)!

ENJOY YOURSELF

Now at the end of the day, in order for any man to be able to please you to pleasure, you need to be able to make yourself cum, be it vaginal orgasm, clitoral or finding your G-Spot – if you haven’t been successful, how dare you expect him to be. So before I go, I’m going to give you a few tips on masturbating, now again, I am no expert and all, what I am sharing are some of my personal experiences that have brought me to sexual bliss.

Here we go… clear your mind and focus on your clit, I find  having a clitoral orgasm is far easier than a vaginal orgasm when masturbating. Gently rubbing it with your fingers, massaging it slowly and gradually build up how intensely you touch it as you reach climax, then as you climax, ease right off as it will be incredibly sensitive to touch. A great tool for this are the wands!

Now try to find your G-Spot, unlike your clit, the G-spot is located inside your vagina on the front wall. You can make a “come here” motion with your fingers to massage it or you can press your fingers against it and move your arm around to stimulate it. It’s really up to you to find what your enjoy the most. We have found that one of the best G-Spot Stimulators comes from NJOY!

Tell us below if you have any other suggestions to reach that wonderful screaming O!

7 Tips For The Perfect Blowjob – said by her

So the reality is, guys think they have to teach a girl how to give them perfect head. And here I am, not so much a pro, but i am about to reveal to you ladies what I have been told has been the ultimately perfect blowjob.

Let’s be honest ladies, we are living in the 21st century, and there is a tool for everything.. including the perfect blowjob (see here). So, let’s beat out that robot!

For starters, it’s not so much about your experience but really how enthusiastic you are when you are about to drop to your knees.

  1. Great blowjobs are visual and stimulates a mans mind visually. Try a blowjob selfie – I kid you not, I said blowjob selfie! One look at this selfie and you’ll be married at first site. Sexy selfies and sexy snapchats are the way we live in this technological day and age. Here are some quick selfie pointers…. open your eyes and relax your face while his cock is placed gently on your tongue and keep your mouth slightly open. Trust me… he will be fantasizing this moment for days to come and anticipating the moment you send him this photo.
  2. Don’t forget to keep the task at hand! Whether its the foreplay prior to the blowie or the post cum stroking… nothing is more disappointing than a man receiving an all star blowjob and you didn’t admire his cock once. Im not saying place the penis on a pedestal but show a happy admiration for the cock you are about to or have just swallowed.
  3. Lollipop, Lollipop, Oh Lolly Lolly Lolly!! Haha, Im not even kidding you! I have found that men love when you show tongue. They love when you lick up and down the shaft, you’ll know he is enjoying this when he grabs your head and angles you in a way he can watch you closer. Be playful at this moment, make eye contact – on occasion, don’t stare and trust me when i say, he wants to hear you as you  lick and kiss and suck his cock. Just remember… always come up for air!
  4. Go Deep, I know I know… but its so big! But ladies, let me tell you something… our men love to at least watch us TRY and swallow them whole. Now you don’t have to go all deep throat on your first try, this could take months of practice but really show some enthusiasm wile you’re sucking his cock and you’ll hear his excitement immediately!
  5. Get ready for the Cum Shot 🙂 Having your man shoot his seed on your face can bring far more pleasure for both of you than you realize. But ensure you do your best to keep your eyes open, even make sure you maintain eye contact and once he’s cum all over your face, use your finger… wipe it off and lick your cum drenched fingertips. Trust me when I say, this will put a smile on both your faces.
  6. Glam it up! Visit your favourite adult sex shop like adultiful.ca and seek out the sexiest lingerie you can find. From personal experience, I found that if I dressed like a porn star, i’ll feel and act like a porn star! And ladies… dressing kinda slutty doesn’t equate to you being slutty – just use your imagine and this will ensure he uses his as well!!
  7. Slow it down girlfriend! And honestly, the number one rule of thumb… NO TEETH!!!

Happy Blowjobs my lovelies! 🙂